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Sexy Ms. Delia

I want to talk to the Pain Mistress readers in this post. This will be the last post to The Pain Mistress Blog. Why? Read on. There are some good things to come…and I will give you some ways to use the blog and reach the Mistresses.

Thank you Pain Mistress Followers

In April of 2010, I wrote the first blog, Pain is Pleasure for The Pain Mistress!  I just had such fun sharing my kink life with the followers of the blog. From this blog, many joined the Pain Club and learned about the naughty side of kink! The blog was joined by Ms Sloane and Ms Christine. We took you through the A-Z of kink a few times.

A New Mistress Joins TPM

When Ms Sloane went away for a bit, and Ms Christine took on a sexy cock sucking blog, the wonderful Ms Olivia joined in. We have had SUCH fun exploring the beauty of being  cruel and mean Mistresses. Now, four years later it is time to say goodbye to The Pain Mistress.

Sexy Ms. Olivia

Sexy Ms. Olivia

We are NOT saying goodbye to kink! We LOVE kink. We are going to be posting these types of topics to our main blogs.

How Do we Reach you for our Kink Needs?

To reach Ms. Delia g to  To reach Ms Olivia go to . And if you really want to experience pleasure and pain together, do a two mistress call with both of us! We will let you know who is in charge for sure!

How to use this Blog Now

Feel free to look through the old topics. Best of all if you have any thoughts or questions about the kinks here, email us. And we may just write a blog for our main sites based on your thoughts.

Ms Olivia says experience counts with BDsm

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Experienced Mistress and BDsm

YOU don’t have to have experience as a submissive ….. but to enjoy all that BDsm has to offer, your Mistress or Domme does need to have experience. Ms Delia and I both are real life fetish players.  We have experience in the fetish scene, with . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia says experience counts with BDsm

SSC verses RACK

SSC vs. RACK Limits In BDSM Play

Mistress Delia

Last month, I wrote about the “right” way to play – and how you have to define that for yourself.

Defining SSC

In defining that, one of the things you need to do id define your limits – and how you’re going to approach them.  . . . → Read More: SSC verses RACK

Ms Olivia- I had my own doubts about pain play

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This is a series of blogs inspired by bfla’s question about my own personal Femdom and fetish journey.  He wanted to know if I’ve ever had any doubts and how I handled those doubts.

Initial doubts about pain play

I’m someone who will tear up at the ASPCA ads with . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia- I had my own doubts about pain play

Ms Olivia- question about fetish doubts

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How did you come to your own fetish journey?

I get some people asking about my own personal fetish journey and it’s interesting to hear about your own fetish interests. I’ve had my fetish doubts as I started to become more strict in my own Mistress journey.  Did you . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia- question about fetish doubts

Ms Olivia- Surprising question about fetish play

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I had a great question from someone in our adult social networking site, Enchantrix Empire.  Yes, I’m available to you as a phone sex Mistress but everything we do is based in my own real life experiences, emotions and more.  I am a fetish Femdom in real life so I . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia- Surprising question about fetish play

Feeling submissive versus sub space

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Submissive tendencies

Some of you are alphas in certain situations and love the *break* of being sexually submissive.  I hear from a lot of you that you have a “submissive personality.”  Remember, there’s no “one size fits all” when talking about erotic pleasure.

Naturally submissive

Personally, I think it’s possible . . . → Read More: Feeling submissive versus sub space

Ms Olivia: BD/sm curiosity leads to surprise

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In my previous post, I told you about the man who contacted me for a cock training program and then confessed his curiosity about more than merely giving Mistress control of his cock.  He was nervous about submission to a Mistress and wasn’t sure how it would work.

Cock control . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia: BD/sm curiosity leads to surprise

Ms Olivia: surprise confession

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A new submissive

If you’re reading this blog then you’ve either experienced sub space or you’re curious about Dominance and submission.  You don’t have to be an expert.  This Experienced Mistress loves to train and play with new submissives.

Confession of needing more than cock control

This person was curious . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia: surprise confession

Ms Olivia: being a Mistress is like being a chef

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So you know you’re a submissive

Maybe you’ve experienced sub space.  It’s a floaty, yummy feeling as you yield control to your Mistress.  Submissives crave this sensation of letting someone else be in control.  And this Experienced Mistress loves to be the one in control.  This ritual is the same . . . → Read More: Ms Olivia: being a Mistress is like being a chef