Roles of a submissive

Roles of a Submissive

There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.  Being flexible and able to adapt as the situation dictates will help you succeed as a submissive.

Serving as a submissive

You should be prepared at any time to be:

-Her sex toy.  She will have her sexual needs and sometimes those needs may involve torturing you sexually.

-Her pain slut for Mistress.  There will be times when she may seem cruel, but her strokes are often well deserved.

-Her pet.  When she wishes to share her affections, we will be there waiting for her and ready to share her comfort.

-Her friend.  There are times when she will need someone to talk to, to confide in, and lean on for support.  Be there for her.

-Her personal attendant.  Be ready to hop at a moment’s notice and deliver what she desires.

-Her housekeeper/maid/butler.  Can you picture her performing tedious and menial tasks?  That’s what she has you for.

-Her lover (optional at her discretion).  Be capable of taking her out for a good time, making her feel sexy, and be able to connect on an intimate personal level.

A well-rounded form of submission goes beyond any individual activity.  If you want to be an important part of her life you should hope to fill all of the roles she could ever ask for.

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Submit to Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many reasons myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive.A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress. We are fortunate to have a submissive who was . . . → Read More: Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Subspace Explorations

Experience Subspace with me!

When I train a new slave, I  am frequently asked to describe and define subspace. How does one explore subspace?  I merely ask a question of my own in response. “How do you explain to a toddler that the stove is hot? What does ‘hot’ mean? Nothing really, until the child inevitably . . . → Read More: Subspace Explorations

Slave To The Wet

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Subspace is Slave Nirvana

Subspace. What is it? How do you achieve it? How can subspace make your submission so much more intense?  Read on and see why we consider subspace to be like nirvana! We are the experts after all! We know how to get you down that hole into submissive bliss, and will be there to . . . → Read More: Subspace is Slave Nirvana

Top Ways To Provide Service To Your Mistress

Change your Mind Change your Perspective About Service to Mistress

Do you know how to provide great service to your mistress? Do you have the attitude necessary for providing top notch service to her? When entering into a Mistress/slave relationship, no matter the type of submissive you are, it is essential to understand . . . → Read More: Top Ways To Provide Service To Your Mistress

Become an Ideal Submissive

Can you be My Ideal Slave?

To become an ideal submissive for a Mistress, you need to have a good understanding of what your ideal relationship would be with a mistress, and what type of BDSM structure and rules/protocol works best for your personality. You can place this information in your Slave Journal. . . . → Read More: Become an Ideal Submissive

Basic Slave Training Journal

Basic Slave Training With Me.

A slave training journal is a way of keeping record of all submissive instructions, submissive assignments, and skills to offer a Mistress. This is a wonderful collection to present to your Mistress and can provide her a wealth of information about you and your kinky needs and skills . . . → Read More: Basic Slave Training Journal

Slave Training Primer

You come seeking slave training from us, followed our requests to approach us respectfully and have done quite well so far. Now what? For those who have a desire to follow their dream of exploring this, it can be a daunting prospect. New to what is expected, what is not, a virgin for all . . . → Read More: Slave Training Primer

Slave Games and Thresholds

Slave Training Is Always Fun

Do You Want To Play A Game?

We are going to do a different type of experiment today. We’re going to play a get to know you game. Stop shaking, it won’t hurt. Much… Get undressed and stand before me. Quickly now, you know this strict . . . → Read More: Slave Games and Thresholds