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 After the Collaring Ceremony all I could do was Smile! Hello dear reader!
My vacation was quite the success! I did in fact collar my houseboy. Now as you may know, collaring a slave can involve a spoken or written understanding, a token of sorts, or a real collar placed around the slave’s neck. I did the latter. The collar I gave him represents a sign of ownership of his mind, body, and soul. It means so very much. Now, for a long time I, Ms. Delia, was sure that all of my Mistress/slave relationships were fluid, that I would never be serious about one over the other. But, somehow the houseboy understood that I am a serious Mistress, and was flexible enough to learn my moods and tells and endear himself to me. As you can imagine, this collaring ceremony was something I never thought I would do. This was a very serious step for me. This means that my slave is now not just a houseboy who does what I want. There is a whole psychology to it. By collaring him, I promised to care for him, and he promised to give up all of his personal power to me.
The ceremony was short but quite personal, but I will let you in on it. We stood together, him a step behind me on his knees. A Mistress friend of mine asked about what we would say, and this is what we came up with:
Ms. Delia: I promise to do you no true harm. I promise to be responsible for your body, mind, soul and life. I will accept the token of your submission and will collar you with truth, love, strength, protection and compassion. I will own and dominate you from this moment forward. I am, and have always been your Mistress.
houseboy: Mistress, I submit my mind, body and soul to you freely, and give my life to you. I have always known that you will always protect me, teach me and discipline me. I promise to give all that I am to be a true slave to you, to serve you and to please you to the best of my abilities. My only wish is to belong to you. I am, and have always been your slave.
Then I placed the collar around his neck. I did not like the first one I got, but luckily found a man who does metal work at the convention, and had him custom make a very vanilla looking collar for him. Now, my slave sleeps at the foot of my bed in a raised trundle.
I want to thank d.m. and s.p.s for the collaring gifts from my Amazon wishlist! I will thank you personally when we speak again!
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 I Love A Good Secret I Have a Secret!
Guess what? Every once in a while you get to read a juicy secret about me in my blogs! This one is so fabulous that I am posting it on all my blogs for all to read! I am so excited! I am going away to a Fetish Bootcamp early Friday morning! I will be in California. I am so super excited. I will actually be there starting this Friday and will be there for 10 days. Oh, I am amazed at the thought of all of the fun things I will be able to do! Now, if you are thinking of The Weekly Hot Spot, no worries at all! The sexy, sweet, and stunning Ms. Holly whose sexual escapades are hotly explained in her latest blog post will be at the show’s controls! I will of course be logged in as “Delia Away” so I will be there for sure, but having my own kind of fetish escapade!
The best part is I am bringing the houseboy along. Now here is the super secret part. If all goes as planned…ohhh this is almost too exciting to tell! Okay, if all goes as planned, I have a wonderful Mistress friend all set to do a collaring ceremony! Yes! It has come that far, and I have even had those excited butterflies in my sexy stomach!
The most fun part is I am doing this all behind the scenes! The houseboy has no idea. In fact, he thinks he is just going as my escort and play toy as he has done at other events. Want to see what I got for the ceremony?
Look here: Slave Collar it is the perfect collar for the houseboy as he has a very vanilla job. It is nice, thin, discreet, and I have a perfect lock, which is a custom made piece by a friend of ours. It does not look at all like a lock, and it is wonderful!
I bought him an outfit for the ceremony: First, I went for practical since he will be down on his knees a lot! I got these: Premium Leather Knee Pads Then I put together his outfit. For a top, I thought a harness would be prefect because I am sure it will be attached to things over the course of ten days! See it here: PVC Chest Harness It is wonderful, better than the picture! Now to address the bottoms, I went with a favorite of mine for a sub. Latex Chaps With Red Stripe ! I got the red stripes to match some other fet wear you will see soon enough! The Matching Red Striped Jockstrap finishes off the chaps! Now, I am a woman, and women LOVE to accessorize, especially for that special occasion!! So, to finish the look, and to get his look all complete, I got Armbands to compliment the cuffs he will be wearing. *Ahhh so wonderful.*
Want to see my outfit?
I’ll bet you do!
I went with a sexy floor length gown! My Mistress Floor Length Latex Gown Now this is super sexy and custom made! I got it in transparent black. I look stunning. I will be accessorizing with my own fetish jewelry, and will have both my finger and toe nails painted a sexy red to match his stripes!
I can assure you he will have different types of red stripes by the end of our time there! Lol!
When I return, I will be a satisfied Mistress with a freshly collared slave! I will be back on the 23rd, and will blog all about how it goes! Be on the lookout for all of the juicy details about all of the activities we will have engaged in! I promise to have something titillating for every blog!!
Until then, remember how excited Mistress Delia is going to be about engaging on hardcore Femdom activities, and then surprising the houseboy with the collaring ceremony!!
This one is a big one for me! Feel free to miss me, wish me a wonderful fetish vacation, and shower me with Collaring gifts!
Do listen to me read this blog. Just click the player at the end 
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Pain play can be very intense and overwhelming to the senses. Certain toys like floggers, violet wands, clamps, vibrators, and sensation toys can provide such a wide variety of sensations. Wanting to begin pain play can be daunting with all of the information out there.
 I Like to Administer Pain I thought about a new way to format my blog. I have had several people join my pain club this week, and the feedback has been great! I have been asked about providing information about toys I enjoy giving pain with. My mean toys are so loved here!
What I plan on doing is selecting one toy, and thoroughly reviewing it in one blog. I will go through types of toys, how to use them, and of course safety when playing! This part will be driven mostly by pain play lover feedback. You can leave a comment here about a toy you want to learn about, or email me at: Delia@enchantrixempire.com
I will choose a toy and put together a thorough blog. I will plan to update this blog once a week, but the post will be very lengthy and full of information, tips, hints, and safety information. Look back at my blog about nipple clamps. Posts will be similar to that, but bulkier, with more information.
If you just love pain play and want to be in on some really fun stuff, join my Pain Club by clicking the tab above. Pop in a nickname and a safe email just you will see, and every couple of weeks you will get a newsletter with some special hardcore news from me! I hope you join!
Look forward to my new format starting Thursday. I will be giving info on … well, I will just make you wait for that! Come back Thursday!
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Mistress Delia will be available this weekend, but mainly later during the weekend. On Saturday, I’ll be gone for the day but will be
Daytime Fun & Nighttime Kink! back at night. I plan to head out with a group of friends to ride the rides at Six Flags! Now, when you think of me screaming on a roller coaster, please remember that not every one of my weekends can be as kinky as they sometimes are! While you are free to miss me during the day, I will absolutely be enjoying myself screaming, flying through the air, and tackling the newest and best rides!!
If you need my voice, I encourage you to go to www.theweeklyhotspot.com and listen to the show that happened Friday night at 9pm Eastern. It was a hot show with me, Mistress Holly, and Mistress Tia who dialed in as our guest. We love Mistress Tia! She does so much, and you can find her at http://www.masturbationmistress.com/blog/. Ms. Tia also does The Mistress Interviews at www.talkshoe.com every Tuesday night at 8pm. It is a show to be downloaded & listened to weekly! Also visit Ms. Tia’s new project: www.provocatalk.com.
While I certainly will be enjoying myself Saturday riding the rides, I will be here Saturday night, and Sunday as well, until about 10pm EST!
For a sexy phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975
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Fetish Weekend Update
This weekend was a hot weekend! Though I missed speaking to you, I did so enjoy the activities the weekend provided. On Friday night, after The Weekly Hot Spot show, I was able to get a turn teasing a mummified slut. This was amazing. The slut was hot! He was up on a slow moving turnstile. Industrial-style plastic wrap was woven around him. Just when I thought his already stiffening cock would be covered, the wrapper began a close criss crossing leaving only the cock and balls uncovered. This would become my teasing area! After participating with other Mistresses to cover the plastic encased slut with candle wax, making pretty colors and patterns, the tease and denial began! I had such fun making this toy squirm, scream , and beg. It was such a hot scene!
Saturday was all about transformations! I got to use makeup skills to help pretty up some sexy sluts on their way to fem transformations! Some even chose (or were put on display by their Mistresses) to participate in a sexy fashion show. Items had been donated by Mistresses. There were 3 categories: casual wear, bathing suits, and evening wear. Though I was not on the judging panel, the sexy sub I liked best won! I was thrilled. We had a chance to chat later about the transformation. I let on that she had been my favorite as she had been wearing my donated old (only once before worn) prom gown! I felt she did it great justice. She gushed about winning and getting her crown. It was perfect!
My Sunday consisted of looking at a few things before I left: flogging, CBT with all kinds of implements, and nipple play. All of these demonstrations gave me many ideas for new things I want to try! I am so thrilled to have been invited by my Mistress friends to attend this private fetish function! My weekend away was so very amazing and hot, that I am sure I will have many daydreamy fantasies about it for a long time!
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Fetish Weekend
 I Will Have Such Fetishy Fun! Mistress Delia is driving for hours to get away to enjoy some Fetish Fun Friday at noontime. I’ll be gone from Friday until Sunday night. While I will miss you all, I will absolutely be enjoying myself. I will get to watch and participate in some of the following tantalizing sexy scenes:
- Mummification – A slave will be placed on a turnstile and wrapped in plastic wrap. No, not the kind you see at the grocery, but an industrial kind! Then the immobilized sub will be able to be poked, prodded, and used in so many ways. Special holes are cut out to leave certain parts exposed for even more fun!
- Saint Andrew’s Cross Play – A special sub or two or three will be attached one after the other to the Saint Andrew’s Cross, and will be sweetly flogged by experts. This is something this pain Mistress is really looking forward to! This will be quite a chance to see new floggers, try one out and buy a new toy!
- Transformations – There will be a special area for transformations! Clothes, undergarments, shapewear, nylons, garters, lingerie, and even dresses and gowns have been donated, Freecycled or found at consignment shops. I will surely help or advise with a transformation or two. Saturday night, there will be a sexy fashion show with voting! We’ll see how sexy and fem all the subs have become during there feminine transformations! I am really looking forward to the fashion show.
While I certainly will miss you all, I will still be here Friday night at 9PM Eastern to Co-Host with Mistress Holly on our Talkshoe radio show. I want you there to hear my voice and about what adventures I am having so far!
For a sexy phone session with Mistress Delia, call 800-601-6975
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Nipple Clamp Erotic Torment
 Read then Buy Nipple Clamps Nipple clamps work by restricting blood flow to the nipples and causing a variety of sensations. Basic knowledge of clamp types and safety can help to make the nipple clamp experience much more fun. The idea for this topic came to me on Friday night during the recording of the second episode of The Weekly Hot Spot with co-host Mistress Holly. We do a segment on the show where we discussed our best and worst sex toys. On the second episode, Mistress Holly described how nipple clamps are often uncomfortable for her due to her sensitive nipples. That got me thinking, not only of her nipples, but also of what she could do differently to achieve great success with nipple clamps. I thought looking at some different types of nipple devices could give all readers some useful hints.
Nipple clamps are generally inexpensive. There are many different styles which I will list.
- The most basic is the clothespin. This is not just for hanging laundry! The clothespin comes in many varieties; some even rubber tipped, and can make a fun addition to any toy bag!
- Alligator clips are simple and very inexpensive, but are not good with larger nipples because of the small surface area. Without tips, these are just metal teeth on skin, and have quite a bite! These are better left to men’s’ nipples.
- Screw-type clamps resemble alligator clamps but have a screw in the middle to allow adjusting. One needs to know which way to screw the clamp, or some real pain can be caused! Learn your toys!
- Clover clamps are generally rubber tipped, but create a large amount of tension due to their heaviness. These are good on experienced people, or those who desire a strong sensation.
- Tweezer Clamps really do look like a pair of tweezers with rubber tips and a small ring at the top which you slide up or down the clamp to give more or less tightness. I would suggest these to any beginner, or to ones like Mistress Holly who have very sensitive nipples. These are also fun just because of the look. I enjoy the look, and the ability to adjust to just the right amount of sensation!
- Snake Bite Kits while not clamps at all cause tension in the nipples using suction. If left on too long, these can cause a blistering of the skin. However, these are fun for skin suction, and can be gotten at any outdoorsy store for a few dollars a kit.
Things to know:
- Nipple clamps will hurt more coming off then going on. When blood rushes back into the nipple tissue, the sensations can range from exciting to excruciating. Experiment with the kind of feelings you prefer.
- It is common for the nipples to stay sensitive, or even sore for up to a couple of days after clamps have been removed.
- Nipple clamps have a time limit because they do restrict blood flow. Only keep them on for 10-15 minutes. More than that can lead to damage of tissue. Check every few minutes, and remove if the nipples get cool.
- Try clamping in different positions such as sideways or from underneath instead of right in the center front to allow for different sensations.
All of these tips, safety information, and hints should help you to make an informed decision on which type of clamps you should use. Click the links above to buy some clamps! Remember to practice and experiment. If it hurts once, try another way. Never be afraid to ask you friendly neighborhood sex toy store attendant for help! Let me know your favorite types of clamps! Happy nipple play!
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Pain becomes pleasure when a femdom is in charge! Whips and chains and paddles and crops and canes – OH MY!
 Pain is Pleasure With Me. Welcome to my new blog – The Pain Mistress. I’m so delighted to have this site where I’ll be able to welcome all my painsluts and bondage pets and give them all what they want – the pleasure of pain. Though I love being a sensual mistress, I can say that given a choice, I do prefer the smell and feel of leather to the sensuality of lace – at least on me! Of course, combining a sissy in his pretty pink lacy panties laying over my knee while I spank his bare ass with my hairbrush makes me so wet!
Pain can come in so many forms: the kiss of a cat-o-nine-tails, the sting of a crop clamps, clips and a zap from a fun little TENS unit. And I can wield a strap-on with the best of them. Taking and owning your ass with my thick, twelve inch cock while you beg me to stop will just leave me laughing at your humiliation and helplessness.
I’d love tying you to a St. Andrews Cross and twisting and pinching your nipples. Then I’d run my hands down your chest to your cock and balls. Do you think I’d give you a nice sroking? Think again. I’d grab and squeeze your pathetic excuse for manhood until you scream for me and tears are streaming down your face!
Do you need to be controlled? Do you need to experience pain in order to reach that blessed level of pleasure you know you crave? I can give you all of that and more.
Empress Delia…Come play. I won’t bite…much.
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