Are you a Wannabe Submissive?
Do you just want to be a submissive, but never have tried? We have a name for you – wannabe! In this post you will read a list of ways to tell if you are a wannabe! If you see yourself in this list, call a Mistress immediately!
If you think it’s not necessary to communicate what you need or want to your Dom because what you want is not important… you might be a Wannabe
If you think being collared and spanked online qualifies you as an experienced sub… you might be a Wannabe.
If you think you have no limits… you might be a Wannabe
If you think using your safeword means you’re not a “real” sub… you might be a Wannabe
If you think bruises and broken limbs are standard bdsm play….you might be a Wannabe
If you think the best sub is the one who can stand the most pain… you might be a Wannabe
If you think R/L is just like cyber… you might be a Wannabe
If you consent your first live meet with a Dom/me without using a safety net… you might be a Wannabe
If you think being a sub is all about being abused… you might be a Wannabe
If you think CBT means “Come and Bring Toys”… you might be a Wannabe
If you have to remove your collar so your Master can walk his dog… you might be a Wannabe (and your Dom is really cheap)
If you think sub-space is the cage a Dom keeps His or Her sub in… you might be a Wannabe
If you think enemas are only given for medicinal purposes…you might be a Wannabe
If you think submission means never saying “no”… you might be a Wannabe
If you have to spit out your chewing tobacco before you can be gagged… you might be a redneck as well as a Wannabe
LOL, I was thinking that most of these had to do more with being stupid, but wannabe works. Or at least someone who can’t tell the difference between fantasy and reality. Now, of course, I love fantasy – my mind lives there – but I leave it there. In fantasy, sure safe words aren’t needed because it’s not real. My ass could be caned until it was black and fell off in a cyber fantasy, but real life… no I don’t think so.
Yup, I may just be a wanbabe! Need to get that corrected!
Anytime you want to change that wanna be status Scott….
You know where to find Me.
Ms Sloane
“Now, of course, I love fantasy – my mind lives there – but I leave it there. In fantasy, sure safe words aren’t needed because it’s not real. My ass could be caned until it was black and fell off in a cyber fantasy, but real life… no I don’t think so.”
magnus,
This is by far, the best way I’ve seen this…problem be phrased!
I couldn’t agree more!
We all know I’m a lifestyle femdom (play in real life and virtually)
Pros and cons to both, no doubt.
Cyber fantasies are great though…
hardcore and safe exploration, to better see if this may suit in real life
or remain a fantasy that does it for you-
what’s not to like?
Thank you magnus, your input here is wonderful!
Ms Sloane
You’re very welcome, MsSloane! I do aim to please.
Another thing about fantasies is that they don’t even have to be something that can be done in real life, whether you’d like it or not, to be pleasing. While it’s not exactly my thing, all the giantess fantasy discussions are a good example. A 60′ woman isn’t really going to come by or I am not really going to be shrunk down to the size of a Ken Doll. (and don’t you think Ken needs a kilt too?) But those that enjoy the thought are certainly welcome to do so.
I imagine you would please well magnus
And yes, fantasies are fun because they are fantasies-
safe exploration, definitely exhilarating, no shortfalls…
Ken should have kilt, yes, LOL sans undies though!
Wonder if there’s a market for that…
Ms Sloane, and the other thing about fantasies that’s good is that it’s not interrupted by real life events. I mean it wouldn’t be quite right that when you have me bound to the cross, naked and gagged, your fingers idly playing with the lock on the chastity device you put on me, your lips caressing the soft skin of my neck….. and then your extended family shows up like at Christmas time. That’d be kind of a downer.
At least in fantasy there could still be denial but it would be planned. 
And as for Ken, he’s not anatomically correct anyway, so he doesn’t need undies, but all men need a kilt, so….
Downer magnus? That’s it?!
Try freakin’ nitemare!!!!
That’s one way of looking at the phrase cock blocked, in a whole new light!
ugh (shudder) I may have nitemares now! eeww…
All men need kilts and undies should be banned when kilt wearing.
But that’s my opinion only.
muses aloud….I wonder if we could do a recreation of Marilyn Monroe’s famous scene….
Yeah…I could get into that idea…
Whoops! Gotta go!
lol, well maybe downer would be a bit of an understatement, Ms Sloane.
Sorry about the nightmares. It would be rather difficult explaining to your relatives with their eyes all agog why you have a naked and bound man. Probably KNK code wouldn’t really adequate. 
No joke, at Dragon*Con every year there is an event where men wear their kilts and someone uses a leaf blower under them. I’ve seen some pictures but not ummm… the whole results. So maybe I’ll try that when it warms up to see what happens.
…”It would be rather difficult explaining to your relatives with their eyes all agog why you have a naked and bound man….”
Been there,done that. Remember this past Xmas Fiasco?
I sure do! LOL
I so want to attend Dragon Con!
I just haven’t made it yet.
Yes magnus…I’d love to see your…leaf blower vs kilt..
I wonder which would win? Especially with your hands cuffed behind you!
I never said I was a nice girl!
Ms Sloane
Oh yes, I remember the Christmas fiasco, Ms Sloane. That’s what inspired my hope-to-never-happen-aborted-fantasy above. Also where I’d mentioned I do own a bow tie.
I want to attend Dragon Con too. It looks like soooo much fun. I’d be happy to have my hands cuffed and let you use the leaf blower though. Nice girls aren’t nearly as much fun.
Yes…that’s right…I have yet to see that bow tie magnus!
Oh Dragon Con IS fun, my best bud Donnie goes every year without fail and of-course, deluges me with pics (he does do good pics) and false sympathy. “Oh too bad….you didn’t get to go…but HERE’S what you MISSED!” bwahahahaha
Which of-course necessitates the need for revenge and round and round we go!
LOL
Oooh, I’ve been remiss. I’ll make sure to get you a bow tie pic soon, Ms Sloane.
(Kilt and bow tie?? Hmm…)
I would not be shocked if Donnie has taken pics of some of my friends then. I did find them in some photos when I was looking around online after last year.
Also… I’m even more jealous of him now if he gets to go to DragonCon AND gets punished by you for the teasing that he gets to go.
I’ll send Donnie your regards then
I really think he does it just for the punishment aspect
eye roll But he does scream like a girl…especially
when the words electricity and or candle wax are mentioned.
Whadda puss!
LOL, yes a wuss indeed. He should be thanking you instead with the same intensity. Much better to take those things from a pleased and turned on Mistress than from an angry one. I volunteer to come demonstrate for him.
Consider yourself volunteered magnus…
Did I neglect to mention that Donnie prefers his kilt?
That would be an interesting site!!!!
A pouting wuss in a kilt and a grinning sub.
Hmmm…
Well, Ms Sloane, I am of the mind that a woman can’t be surrounded by too many kilted men. Just not possible. So I’m thinking it should be me, Donnie, and the insurance agent all together in kilts there to serve you. How’s that for a trifecta?
Well magnus,
If the three of you will be so kind…
Throw arms around each other and start the Rockette’s chorus girl’s
high kicks (co-ordinate! where’s you guy’s rhythm?)
I think we may have a very nice deal…LOL
But if we all do some high kicks in our kilts, then you’d be able to see……ohhhhh….. nevermind. LOL
@ magnus
Ding! Ding! Ding!
We have a…winner!