Fetish By Letter

Fetish by Letter

“Fetish - an article or action that causes arousal in a person that would not normally be considered sexual”~***as defined by mistresssky***

We’re Starting Something New and Delicious…

Fetish by Letter is an A-Z  listing of our faves and we hope, some of yours! To begin this week’s Fetish . . . → Read More: Fetish By Letter

BDSM Service Quote

How do you Serve in BDSM?

Today’s Thursday musing is something I really want to hear about…from you!

How do you feel about this?

 

“Do not be like servants who serve their masters expecting to receive a reward; be rather like servants who serve their master unconditionally, with . . . → Read More: BDSM Service Quote

BDSM Joke

BDSM Jokes make Me Laugh!

Every once in a while your Pain Mistresses have to have some fun. We enjoy a good BDSM joke! Sometimes you just just let loose and have a good laugh as you take a good look at all of the sex toys and kink around you! While BDSM is . . . → Read More: BDSM Joke

What Kind of Slut are you?

Be a good Slut!

Are you a slut? Likely if you are reading this post! But the question really is what kind of slut are you? Throughout the week at the Pain Mistress, we like to have some fun, and challenge our readers at the same time. For our thought provoking . . . → Read More: What Kind of Slut are you?

15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

Are you a Wannabe Submissive?

Do you just want to be a submissive, but never have tried? We have a name for you – wannabe! In this post you will read a list of  ways to tell if you are a wannabe! If you see yourself in this list, call a Mistress immediately! . . . → Read More: 15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

10 Phrases NEVER to say to your Mistress

Never disrespect Mistress!

There are many things you should never say to your Mistress. You know the eye contact restrictions you must maintain, and the vocal responses you must give to certain questions. You know the BDSM protocols and rituals that you must go through. You know it all so well. But you do . . . → Read More: 10 Phrases NEVER to say to your Mistress

Mistresses ARE What you Want

You want a Mistress!

Mistresses are what you want. Why? Well, you fantasize about being  enslaved and used by your Mistress, We know.  You enjoy the thought of a slightly sadistic, no-nonsense Mistress who takes no shit; a Mistress who is so powerful that Her look can intimidate the biggest of any man.

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BDSM Quote Mistress Body Worship

Mistress Body Worship

“Body worship is first and foremost for Her benefit, not yours, though it is marvelous to discover that in giving Her pleasure, you yourself enter into what can become your  most wholesome experience in life.” ~ Submissive Journal  

How much do you agree with this quote?

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BDSM Safety Video Threesome

BDSM Play Safety

A threesome of BDSM safety videos promises to let you see exactly what happens when you engage in kink safely or not.

The first Video lets you see very easily how a well-practiced explanation can really save your ass, both figuratively and literally. We here at the pain mistress just . . . → Read More: BDSM Safety Video Threesome

Can you Worship Mistress

Body Worship

I’ve heard people remark that seeing their Mistress in the buff does not  a domination session make. Worse, that seeing your mistress in her full glory is immoral. Seriously?! Get real people! It may not be what you might consider professional, but I didn’t know you were appointed judge and jury. . . . → Read More: Can you Worship Mistress