Thursdays at The Pain Mistress are getting thoughtful with a BDSM Quote for you to reflect on. Each quote is designed to make you think and reeflect about service to a Mistress, your submission, the power exchange in BDSM, or anything to do with the dynamic.
BDSM Quote Responses
Every Thursday will bring a new quote for blog readers to reflect on. Blog readers will need to enjoy and think about what each quote means to them. Here on the blog it will be wonderful to receive comments. Our wish is for each blog reader to thoroughly enjoysharing what resonates within you and your kinky fantasies. We love to share with you and get those responses from you. The reflections will be wonderful for us to get!
Quote to Reflect on
“Surrendering to your Owner is not an admission of defeat or personal inadequacy. True surrender requires the courage to face the unknown and trust in the guide you have chosen to lead you into the unexplored territory. When you have found within yourself the courage and trust required to surrender that is a victory to savor.”
From: The Path of Service by Christina “slavette” Parker
Now that you have read the quote…
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This quote goes along with something I often say. I hate the stereotype of submissive males being wimps or weak. I am not pathetic nor do I wish to perceived as such. To me, submission is a voluntary giving of self. It’s not something someone can take from you. Yes I enjoy reading stories of some sort of abduction or forcing into slavery, but I recognize those as pure fantasy. In real submission, it is an exchange of power. I would be strong enough to give that to another, someone I would need to recognize as being able to take that power and use it properly and wisely. Someone who is weak would not have such power to give in the first place.
“In real submission, it is an exchange of power. I would be strong enough to give that to another, someone I would need to recognize as being able to take that power and use it properly and wisely. Someone who is weak would not have such power to give in the first place.”…
To me? There is nothing more seductive as that exchange of power, recognizing that it is entirely voluntary, that it speaks more eloquently than words ever could hope-of the gift of trusting body and mind to another.
This is what I work very hard in educating people out there, correcting the belief that a sub is weak or incapable of having a single thought outside that of their Domme. Thank you magnus. I hope others read your words and understand-as you speak as only a true sub can.
Mistress Sloane