Fetish By Letter

Fetish by Letter

“Fetish - an article or action that causes arousal in a person that would not normally be considered sexual”~***as defined by mistresssky***

We’re Starting Something New and Delicious…

Fetish by Letter is an A-Z  listing of our faves and we hope, some of yours! To begin this week’s Fetish . . . → Read More: Fetish By Letter

BDSM Service Quote

How do you Serve in BDSM?

Today’s Thursday musing is something I really want to hear about…from you!

How do you feel about this?

 

“Do not be like servants who serve their masters expecting to receive a reward; be rather like servants who serve their master unconditionally, with . . . → Read More: BDSM Service Quote

What Kind of Slut are you?

Be a good Slut!

Are you a slut? Likely if you are reading this post! But the question really is what kind of slut are you? Throughout the week at the Pain Mistress, we like to have some fun, and challenge our readers at the same time. For our thought provoking . . . → Read More: What Kind of Slut are you?

15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

Are you a Wannabe Submissive?

Do you just want to be a submissive, but never have tried? We have a name for you – wannabe! In this post you will read a list of  ways to tell if you are a wannabe! If you see yourself in this list, call a Mistress immediately! . . . → Read More: 15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

Mistresses ARE What you Want

You want a Mistress!

Mistresses are what you want. Why? Well, you fantasize about being  enslaved and used by your Mistress, We know.  You enjoy the thought of a slightly sadistic, no-nonsense Mistress who takes no shit; a Mistress who is so powerful that Her look can intimidate the biggest of any man.

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Truth or Dare

Here it is…what you’ve been waiting for! This is very first of our Mindfuck Friday Truth or Dare series!!!!

You never know what Mistress Delia and I have up our sleeves do you? That’s the fun of it!

Here’s how this works

Read the truth or dare question and submit your answer in the . . . → Read More: Truth or Dare

BDSM Quote

Thursdays at The Pain Mistress are getting thoughtful with a BDSM Quote for you to reflect on. Each quote is designed to make you think and reeflect about service to a Mistress, your submission, the power exchange in BDSM, or anything to do with the dynamic.

BDSM Quote Responses

Every Thursday will bring a new quote for . . . → Read More: BDSM Quote

Safe Word Means Safe Pain

“I Am Sorry but the Safe Word is NOT “I Forgot the Safe Word!”

Pain Play Safely

A lot of people will tell you that having a “safeword” when entering the play world of BDSM is a good idea. I’d be one of them. Put simply, a word that you can say, to . . . → Read More: Safe Word Means Safe Pain

Roles of a submissive

Roles of a Submissive

There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.  Being flexible and able to adapt . . . → Read More: Roles of a submissive

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Submit to Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many reasons myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive.A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress. We are fortunate to have a submissive who was . . . → Read More: Reasons to Submit to a Mistress