15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

Are you a Wannabe Submissive?

Do you just want to be a submissive, but never have tried? We have a name for you – wannabe! In this post you will read a list of  ways to tell if you are a wannabe! If you see yourself in this list, call a Mistress immediately! . . . → Read More: 15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

10 Phrases NEVER to say to your Mistress

Never disrespect Mistress!

There are many things you should never say to your Mistress. You know the eye contact restrictions you must maintain, and the vocal responses you must give to certain questions. You know the BDSM protocols and rituals that you must go through. You know it all so well. But you do . . . → Read More: 10 Phrases NEVER to say to your Mistress

Mistresses ARE What you Want

You want a Mistress!

Mistresses are what you want. Why? Well, you fantasize about being  enslaved and used by your Mistress, We know.  You enjoy the thought of a slightly sadistic, no-nonsense Mistress who takes no shit; a Mistress who is so powerful that Her look can intimidate the biggest of any man.

. . . → Read More: Mistresses ARE What you Want

BDSM Safety Video Threesome

BDSM Play Safety

A threesome of BDSM safety videos promises to let you see exactly what happens when you engage in kink safely or not.

The first Video lets you see very easily how a well-practiced explanation can really save your ass, both figuratively and literally. We here at the pain mistress just . . . → Read More: BDSM Safety Video Threesome

Can you Worship Mistress

Body Worship

I’ve heard people remark that seeing their Mistress in the buff does not  a domination session make. Worse, that seeing your mistress in her full glory is immoral. Seriously?! Get real people! It may not be what you might consider professional, but I didn’t know you were appointed judge and jury. . . . → Read More: Can you Worship Mistress

BDSM Dice Game

BDSM Dice Games with Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Monday’s at the Pain Mistress have just gotten more interesting with BDSM dice games!

Dice Game Rules:

Needed-

1 die (just one!) numbers 1-6

What you are- sissy, cumslut, stroker, slave, etc determines what you do following that roll of the single die across . . . → Read More: BDSM Dice Game

Truth or Dare

Here it is…what you’ve been waiting for! This is very first of our Mindfuck Friday Truth or Dare series!!!!

You never know what Mistress Delia and I have up our sleeves do you? That’s the fun of it!

Here’s how this works

Read the truth or dare question and submit your answer in the . . . → Read More: Truth or Dare

BDSM Quote

Thursdays at The Pain Mistress are getting thoughtful with a BDSM Quote for you to reflect on. Each quote is designed to make you think and reeflect about service to a Mistress, your submission, the power exchange in BDSM, or anything to do with the dynamic.

BDSM Quote Responses

Every Thursday will bring a new quote for . . . → Read More: BDSM Quote

BDSM Safety Video

Watch a BDSM Safety Video

Do you wonder about BDSM safety? Do you enjoy watching videos that help you to enjoy your kink even more? Well, every Tuesday here at the Pain Mistress, Ms. Sloane and Ms. Delia will present you interesting, funny, and sometimes shocking videos that you can see if you . . . → Read More: BDSM Safety Video

Safe Word Means Safe Pain

“I Am Sorry but the Safe Word is NOT “I Forgot the Safe Word!”

Pain Play Safely

A lot of people will tell you that having a “safeword” when entering the play world of BDSM is a good idea. I’d be one of them. Put simply, a word that you can say, to . . . → Read More: Safe Word Means Safe Pain