Mistresses ARE What you Want

You want a Mistress!

Mistresses are what you want. Why? Well, you fantasize about being  enslaved and used by your Mistress, We know.  You enjoy the thought of a slightly sadistic, no-nonsense Mistress who takes no shit; a Mistress who is so powerful that Her look can intimidate the biggest of any man.

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BDSM Quote

Thursdays at The Pain Mistress are getting thoughtful with a BDSM Quote for you to reflect on. Each quote is designed to make you think and reeflect about service to a Mistress, your submission, the power exchange in BDSM, or anything to do with the dynamic.

BDSM Quote Responses

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Safe Word Means Safe Pain

“I Am Sorry but the Safe Word is NOT “I Forgot the Safe Word!”

Pain Play Safely

A lot of people will tell you that having a “safeword” when entering the play world of BDSM is a good idea. I’d be one of them. Put simply, a word that you can say, to . . . → Read More: Safe Word Means Safe Pain

Roles of a submissive

Roles of a Submissive

There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.  Being flexible and able to adapt . . . → Read More: Roles of a submissive

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Submit to Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many reasons myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive.A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress. We are fortunate to have a submissive who was . . . → Read More: Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Slave Training Primer

You come seeking slave training from us, followed our requests to approach us respectfully and have done quite well so far. Now what? For those who have a desire to follow their dream of exploring this, it can be a daunting prospect. New to what is expected, what is not, a virgin for all . . . → Read More: Slave Training Primer

Slave Games and Thresholds

Slave Training Is Always Fun

Do You Want To Play A Game?

We are going to do a different type of experiment today. We’re going to play a get to know you game. Stop shaking, it won’t hurt. Much… Get undressed and stand before me. Quickly now, you know this strict . . . → Read More: Slave Games and Thresholds

Two Mistresses Give Slave Training

When you saw the “Slave Training” title of this blog, what did you think of? Did you visualize slaves naked on their knees in front of a Domina in specific positions? Training means so many different things, and the wonderful thing is slave training always changes, but never ends. We will provide you opportunities . . . → Read More: Two Mistresses Give Slave Training

How to Approach a Mistress for Slave Training

When seeking slave training from a sexy, Femdom Mistress, there is often confusion as to where to start. How do you approach a Mistress without sounding ridiculous or being completely humiliating to yourself? We Mistresses like an intelligent and respectful inquiry from even the most slutty and untrained slaves. Decorum is expected. Research of . . . → Read More: How to Approach a Mistress for Slave Training

Electro Chastity

Do you have any idea how hard it is to keep a disobedient and uppity sub in line?  Unfortunately, Mistress Delia has lots of experience in this area. Subs can be a bratty lot, especially when they are alone and think that Mistress won’t find out what they have been up to.

 

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