What Kind of Slut are you?

Be a good Slut!

Are you a slut? Likely if you are reading this post! But the question really is what kind of slut are you? Throughout the week at the Pain Mistress, we like to have some fun, and challenge our readers at the same time. For our thought provoking . . . → Read More: What Kind of Slut are you?

15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

Are you a Wannabe Submissive?

Do you just want to be a submissive, but never have tried? We have a name for you – wannabe! In this post you will read a list of  ways to tell if you are a wannabe! If you see yourself in this list, call a Mistress immediately! . . . → Read More: 15 Ways to Tell you are a Wannabe Submissive

10 Phrases NEVER to say to your Mistress

Never disrespect Mistress!

There are many things you should never say to your Mistress. You know the eye contact restrictions you must maintain, and the vocal responses you must give to certain questions. You know the BDSM protocols and rituals that you must go through. You know it all so well. But you do . . . → Read More: 10 Phrases NEVER to say to your Mistress

BDSM Dice Game

BDSM Dice Games with Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Monday’s at the Pain Mistress have just gotten more interesting with BDSM dice games!

Dice Game Rules:

Needed-

1 die (just one!) numbers 1-6

What you are- sissy, cumslut, stroker, slave, etc determines what you do following that roll of the single die across . . . → Read More: BDSM Dice Game

Truth or Dare

Here it is…what you’ve been waiting for! This is very first of our Mindfuck Friday Truth or Dare series!!!!

You never know what Mistress Delia and I have up our sleeves do you? That’s the fun of it!

Here’s how this works

Read the truth or dare question and submit your answer in the . . . → Read More: Truth or Dare

BDSM Quote

Thursdays at The Pain Mistress are getting thoughtful with a BDSM Quote for you to reflect on. Each quote is designed to make you think and reeflect about service to a Mistress, your submission, the power exchange in BDSM, or anything to do with the dynamic.

BDSM Quote Responses

Every Thursday will bring a new quote for . . . → Read More: BDSM Quote

Roles of a submissive

Roles of a Submissive

There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.  Being flexible and able to adapt . . . → Read More: Roles of a submissive

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Submit to Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many reasons myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive.A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress. We are fortunate to have a submissive who was . . . → Read More: Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Subspace Explorations

Experience Subspace with me!

When I train a new slave, I  am frequently asked to describe and define subspace. How does one explore subspace?  I merely ask a question of my own in response. “How do you explain to a toddler that the stove is hot? What does ‘hot’ mean? Nothing really, until the child inevitably . . . → Read More: Subspace Explorations

Subspace is Slave Nirvana

Subspace. What is it? How do you achieve it? How can subspace make your submission so much more intense?  Read on and see why we consider subspace to be like nirvana! We are the experts after all! We know how to get you down that hole into submissive bliss, and will be there to . . . → Read More: Subspace is Slave Nirvana