Truth or Dare

Here it is…what you’ve been waiting for! This is very first of our Mindfuck Friday Truth or Dare series!!!!

You never know what Mistress Delia and I have up our sleeves do you? That’s the fun of it!

Here’s how this works

Read the truth or dare question and submit your answer in the . . . → Read More: Truth or Dare

BDSM Quote

Thursdays at The Pain Mistress are getting thoughtful with a BDSM Quote for you to reflect on. Each quote is designed to make you think and reeflect about service to a Mistress, your submission, the power exchange in BDSM, or anything to do with the dynamic.

BDSM Quote Responses

Every Thursday will bring a new quote for . . . → Read More: BDSM Quote

Roles of a submissive

Roles of a Submissive

There are a number of different roles you will take on as a submissive.  While you may have one primary role that you want to be, it’s ultimately up to the Domme to decide what she expects of you at any given moment.  Being flexible and able to adapt . . . → Read More: Roles of a submissive

Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Submit to Ms. Delia and Ms. Sloane

Reasons to submit to a mistress can be numerous. I can think of many reasons myself. However, sometimes the best insights come from a submissive.A submissive can often explain very personal reasons for submitting to a mistress. We are fortunate to have a submissive who was . . . → Read More: Reasons to Submit to a Mistress

Subspace Explorations

Experience Subspace with me!

When I train a new slave, I  am frequently asked to describe and define subspace. How does one explore subspace?  I merely ask a question of my own in response. “How do you explain to a toddler that the stove is hot? What does ‘hot’ mean? Nothing really, until the child inevitably . . . → Read More: Subspace Explorations

Subspace is Slave Nirvana

Subspace. What is it? How do you achieve it? How can subspace make your submission so much more intense?  Read on and see why we consider subspace to be like nirvana! We are the experts after all! We know how to get you down that hole into submissive bliss, and will be there to . . . → Read More: Subspace is Slave Nirvana

Become an Ideal Submissive

Can you be My Ideal Slave?

To become an ideal submissive for a Mistress, you need to have a good understanding of what your ideal relationship would be with a mistress, and what type of BDSM structure and rules/protocol works best for your personality. You can place this information in your Slave Journal. . . . → Read More: Become an Ideal Submissive