When I train a new slave, I am frequently asked to describe and define subspace. How does one explore subspace? I merely ask a question of my own in response. “How do you explain to a toddler that the stove is hot? What does ‘hot’ mean? Nothing really, until the child inevitably touches the stove, receives a burn and understanding, individualized as it is, takes place.”
Experience subspace Fully with a Mistress
Mistress controlled subspace is something beter experienced than explained. I’ve heard things such as, it’s an out of body experience, a gateway for a slave to take on more pain than usual as they are ‘disconnected’. I’ve heard some say that it’s a type of euphoria that happens and a sort of ‘epiphany’ arrives to them letting them offer no resistance to their Mistress as the event is happening whereas prior, they may have tried but couldn’t completely surrender until now.
I Define Subspace as Chemical Reaction
I can ‘grasp’ these concepts easily enough but due to my medical background, subscribe more to the theory that subspace is the culmination resulting in the body starting to mass produce endorphins to keep pain away. This rush of ‘feel good’ chemicals makes the slave feel a ‘high’ and lets them endure just about anything. Their brain is euphoric and they begin to actually relax when normally this would be anything but the case.
Subspace Is Attainable
One thing that everyone does seem to agree on, is that subspace is desirable and attainable. Both Mistress Delia and I have similar slave training techniques and are in sync with the other. We both have extensive real life BDSM experience, ongoing in both cases, and use our knowledge gained from those experiences to apply here,virtually.
We both agree that the key to increase the chance of a slave or sub reaching that subspace level is by watching and/or listening to the reaction of the slave during a session. We carefully monitor them and are able to gauge as to whether if they are entering a different mindset (subspace) or to call a halt for the day.
We are always here to help you delve into subspace explorations!
If you missed part one of our subspace discussions, just check it out! Slave Nirvana Subspace









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