A Yen For Japanese Restraint

Kinbaku Suspension

Example of French Shibari

 

Japanese bondage is very much about the mind/body aspect, down to the way the rope is applied. The concept of it is that the pleasure is more in the experience of it all rather than the climax. Shibari, if you remember, is the common term used . . . → Read More: A Yen For Japanese Restraint

Bondage Japanese Style

 

Bondage. What does that mean to you? For many out there, the words slavery, submissive, and servitude are what leaps immediately into the forefront of the mind. True enough. Bondage and BDSM seem to go hand in hand. But to others it means so much more. It can signify a way of giving . . . → Read More: Bondage Japanese Style

I is for Immobilization bondage

I…wait shouldn’t that be “I” as in Me, Ms. Delia?

I had thought to do I as “I”, but we just did Goddess Worship and your lovely Phone Sex Fem Domme wanted to talk about something else. When I play with my little sluts, sometimes a little restraint is in order. Hence immobilization! Very often . . . → Read More: I is for Immobilization bondage

Helping You With Humiliation

Window into Humiliation

A Window with a View…

Humiliation can be highly erotic, giving a submissive a view into themselves way down deep inside. It’s not done to take away someone’s sense of worth or make them feel powerless. Degradation play can include degrading words and phrases, such as, “Just whose cum slut are . . . → Read More: Helping You With Humiliation

Here For Head…Games

Bring On H

Simplicity and a Femdom

H is for head games. Oh how I enjoy domination. Some of the most powerful tools always available to a femdom mistress are the simplest. Though I know a few that I may wonder about, people don’t generally misplace their brain. I did say ‘generally’.

Sticks . . . → Read More: Here For Head…Games

G is for Gender Play

Bloom from your gender role

Are you interested in switching your gender role? This week, The Pain Mistress is brought to you by the letter G, for gender play. You can also call this cross-dressing, transvestism or even sissy play. Put simply, it’s when those involved switch gender roles. So gender play is . . . → Read More: G is for Gender Play

Gettin Figgy With It

All News that Is News About Figging

The name comes from the good ole horse traders in Victorian times.(thank you magnus-for the trivia answer, this guy is good!) “Feaguing” or gingering a horse was a quick way of  making an older horse look like a younger horse (with a plug of ginger up . . . → Read More: Gettin Figgy With It

How Does T+D=E for Edging?

Edging Play

How does T +D = E?

That’s right pets, MATH!  How tortuous and painful is that.  Let’s let “T” stand for Tease, and “D” stand for Denial.  Put those two together, and it adds up to Edging.  Ms. Delia loves tease and denial.  So much so, that’s I’ve challenged you stroker . . . → Read More: How Does T+D=E for Edging?

Frankly I Don’t Give A F-

Ms Sloane Brings the Heat

 

Gotcha didn’t I? I bet you thought I was gonna say ffuckk… pronounced in that juicy southern drawl. Nope! Better luck next time! What I was going to say was fuh-igg-ing!

I Don’t Give a Fig

Figging is one of those that you either love or you hate, I’ve yet to encounter anyone who’s ambivalent. . . . → Read More: Frankly I Don’t Give A F-

The CBT Chair

Sit in the CBT Chair

All of my playthings know about the room I have in my house. The one with my “special” furniture. And one of my favorite pieces is my CBT chair. It almost looks like a Medieval throne. Big, massive, with a really high back. It has a very special . . . → Read More: The CBT Chair