Here For Head…Games

Bring On H

Simplicity and a Femdom

H is for head games. Oh how I enjoy domination. Some of the most powerful tools always available to a femdom mistress are the simplest. Though I know a few that I may wonder about, people don’t generally misplace their brain. I did say ‘generally’.

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Decadence with Dildos

Let's Play with Dildos and your Ass!!

Mistress Sloane Is Here

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Guess what this week’s Fetish by Letter is? Let me hear it now, shout it right on out. Yes! D. I knew you could do it!

D as in Decandent… Delightful…Dildo

But wait, I can you hear you thinking, you know. Especially . . . → Read More: Decadence with Dildos

BDSM Service Quote

How do you Serve in BDSM?

Today’s Thursday musing is something I really want to hear about…from you!

How do you feel about this?

 

“Do not be like servants who serve their masters expecting to receive a reward; be rather like servants who serve their master unconditionally, with . . . → Read More: BDSM Service Quote

What Kind of Slut are you?

Be a good Slut!

Are you a slut? Likely if you are reading this post! But the question really is what kind of slut are you? Throughout the week at the Pain Mistress, we like to have some fun, and challenge our readers at the same time. For our thought provoking . . . → Read More: What Kind of Slut are you?

BDSM Quote Mistress Body Worship

Mistress Body Worship

“Body worship is first and foremost for Her benefit, not yours, though it is marvelous to discover that in giving Her pleasure, you yourself enter into what can become your  most wholesome experience in life.” ~ Submissive Journal  

How much do you agree with this quote?

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Safe Word Means Safe Pain

“I Am Sorry but the Safe Word is NOT “I Forgot the Safe Word!”

Pain Play Safely

A lot of people will tell you that having a “safeword” when entering the play world of BDSM is a good idea. I’d be one of them. Put simply, a word that you can say, to . . . → Read More: Safe Word Means Safe Pain

Top Ways To Provide Service To Your Mistress

Change your Mind Change your Perspective About Service to Mistress

Do you know how to provide great service to your mistress? Do you have the attitude necessary for providing top notch service to her? When entering into a Mistress/slave relationship, no matter the type of submissive you are, it is essential to understand . . . → Read More: Top Ways To Provide Service To Your Mistress

Become an Ideal Submissive

Can you be My Ideal Slave?

To become an ideal submissive for a Mistress, you need to have a good understanding of what your ideal relationship would be with a mistress, and what type of BDSM structure and rules/protocol works best for your personality. You can place this information in your Slave Journal. . . . → Read More: Become an Ideal Submissive

Basic Slave Training Journal

Basic Slave Training With Me.

A slave training journal is a way of keeping record of all submissive instructions, submissive assignments, and skills to offer a Mistress. This is a wonderful collection to present to your Mistress and can provide her a wealth of information about you and your kinky needs and skills . . . → Read More: Basic Slave Training Journal

Slave Games and Thresholds

Slave Training Is Always Fun

Do You Want To Play A Game?

We are going to do a different type of experiment today. We’re going to play a get to know you game. Stop shaking, it won’t hurt. Much… Get undressed and stand before me. Quickly now, you know this strict . . . → Read More: Slave Games and Thresholds